self improvement – Marlo Yonocruz

What Does Your Ideal Partner Actually Look Like? (I Asked AI and It Got Uncomfortably Accurate)

I asked Claude to synthesize my ideal romantic partner based on my personality frameworks, relationship history, and life vision. Here’s what it came up with — and a prompt you can use to run the same exercise yourself.

Personal development · Relationships · AI tools

I’ve been on a bit of an AI rabbit hole lately.

It started with me using Claude to help build out a full personal profile of myself — 100 interview-style questions, synthesized into a written document. From there I went deep on shadow work, emotional pattern analysis, and a reflection on my dance team family. I wrote about the whole experience in a previous post (What Happens When You Let AI Interview You for Two Days) if you want the full backstory.

At some point during all of that, I thought: if Claude knows me this well at this point, can it synthesize what my ideal romantic partner actually looks like?

Spoiler: Yes. And it was more useful than I expected.

This post is two things: a reflection on that experience, and a reusable prompt you can run yourself to get the same output. Whether you’re single, dating, or trying to get clearer on what you need in your current relationship — this exercise is worth the 20–30 minutes.

2025 Life Lessons: Love, Health, and Success

What 2025 has taught me about health, success, and love.

Me looking at the people about to ruin my photo
📸: Alanis

At the end of every “Year in Review” mega-post, I compile a list of all the major Life Lessons I’ve learned that year. A few years ago, I started the tradition of separating this into a separate post from the main 2025 Year In Review post.

In compiling these lessons, I noticed they fell into 3 major categories. I have grouped them accordingly:

Love & Relationships
Success & Happiness
Health & Well-Being

Feel free to skip to the sections most interesting or relevant to you. Or just go through them all if you’re in the mood.

2024 Life Lessons: Love, Health, and Success

What 2024 has taught me about health, success, and love.

At the end of every “Year in Review” mega-post, I compile a list of all the major Life Lessons I’ve learned that year. A couple years ago, I started the tradition of separating this into a separate post from the main 2024 Year In Review post.

In compiling these lessons, I noticed they fell into 3 major categories. I have grouped them accordingly:

Love & Relationships
Success & Happiness
Health & Well-Being

Feel free to skip to the sections most interesting or relevant to you. Or just go through them all if you’re feeling in the mood.

2023 Life Lessons: Love, Health, and Success

What 2023 has taught me about health, success, and love.

In compiling these lessons, I noticed they fell into 3 major categories. I have grouped them accordingly:

Love & Relationships
Success & Happiness
Health & Well-Being

Feel free to skip to the sections most interesting or relevant to you. Or just go through them all if you’re feeling in the mood.

2022 Life Lessons: Health, Happiness, and Leadership

What 2022 has taught me about health, happiness, and leadership.

In compiling these lessons, I noticed they fell into 3 major categories. I have grouped them accordingly:

Leadership & Relationships
Success & Happiness
Health & Well-Being

Feel free to skip to the sections most interesting or relevant to you. Or just go through them all if you’re feeling in the mood.

Book notes: Make It Stick by Peter C. Brown

Make It Stick by Peter C. Brown book summary review and key ideas.

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Make It Stick: The Science of Succesful Learning by Peter C. Brown

Synopsis:

“To most of us, learning something “the hard way” implies wasted time and effort. Good teaching, we believe, should be creatively tailored to the different learning styles of students and should use strategies that make learning easier.

Make It Stick turns fashionable ideas like these on their head. Many common study habits and practice routines turn out to be counterproductive. Underlining and highlighting, rereading, cramming, and single-minded repetition of new skills create the illusion of mastery, but gains fade quickly. More complex and learning come from self-testing, introducing certain difficulties in practice, waiting to re-study new material until a little forgetting has set in, and interleaving the practice of one skill or topic with another. Speaking most urgently to students, teachers, trainers, and athletes, Make It Stick will appeal to all those interested in the challenge of lifelong learning and self-improvement.” -Audible

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2021 Life Lessons: Success, Relationships, and Content Creation

What 2021 has taught me about success, people, my well-being, and social media.

Celebrated 3 decades alive with 5 of my biggest life lessons on my Instagram

In compiling these lessons, I noticed they fell into 4 major categories. I have grouped them accordingly:

People & Relationships
Career & Success
Health & Well-Being
Social Media & Content Creation

Feel free to skip to the sections most interesting or relevant to you. Or just go through them all if you’re feeling in the mood.

2020 Year in Review: Life Lessons on Success, Relationships, and Well-Being

What 2020 has taught me about success, people, and my well-being.

The best way to reflect is to sit on a couple of stools in a park while dressed like a flower boy in a wedding

At the end of every “Year in Review” mega-post, I compile a list of all the major Life Lessons I’ve learned that year. Last year, I started the tradition of separating this into a separate post from the main 2020 Year In Review post.

In compiling these lessons, I noticed they fell into 3 major categories and have grouped them accordingly:

Career & Success
People & Relationships
Health & Well-Being

Feel free to skip to the sections most interesting or relevant to you. Or just go through them all if you’re feeling in the mood.