writing – Marlo Yonocruz

Personal development · Relationships · AI tools

I’ve been on a bit of an AI rabbit hole lately.

It started with me using Claude to help build out a full personal profile of myself — 100 interview-style questions, synthesized into a written document. From there I went deep on shadow work, emotional pattern analysis, and a reflection on my dance team family. I wrote about the whole experience in a previous post (What Happens When You Let AI Interview You for Two Days) if you want the full backstory.

At some point during all of that, I thought: if Claude knows me this well at this point, can it synthesize what my ideal romantic partner actually looks like?

Spoiler: Yes. And it was more useful than I expected.

This post is two things: a reflection on that experience, and a reusable prompt you can run yourself to get the same output. Whether you’re single, dating, or trying to get clearer on what you need in your current relationship — this exercise is worth the 20–30 minutes.

Personal Reflection · May 2026

Hello friends, followers, and various people on the internet 👋

So this is a different kind of post. It’s personal in a way that even my yearly reviews haven’t quite been. And honestly, I wasn’t sure I was going to publish it. But I think the process I went through over the past couple of days was genuinely valuable — both for me and potentially for anyone else who’s been using AI tools and wondering how deep you can actually take them. So here we are.

Fair warning: this is long. There’s a table of contents below. Feel free to skip to whatever section interests you most. 😅

Table of Contents

Tag: writing

What Does Your Ideal Partner Actually Look Like? (I Asked AI and It Got Uncomfortably Accurate)

What Happens When You Let AI Interview You for Two Days